Rediscovering Filipino Values: I See, I Act, I Advocate
Rediscovering Filipino Values: I See, I Act, I Advocate
Let me share with you a story lifted from the daily devotional: Our Daily Bread.
Brady Davis was a high school senior and was one of the best and brightest in
his community. He was talented and intelligent. But his greatest asset was his integrity,
which he demonstrated during a regional spelling bee. When his school was given the
word auditorium, Brady glanced down to think about the answer. As he did so, he
noticed that the word was printed on the microphone stand. Brady called this to the
attention of the judges, who then gave the team a more difficult word. Brady did what
he knew was right, whether others noticed or not. He showed exemplary behavior,
which made his community even more proud of him. He knew what he was capable of
doing and he embraced this responsibility with all the right values.
courtesy, with high self – esteem and therefore a good leader which others should
emulate.
With this, we begin to question, How many of us Filipinos do you think have the
value of integrity? How many government officials have you voted during elections
because of their integrity? How many parents do you think are rearing their children to
possess such values? How many of us students are not cheating during exams? There
demonstrating power and releasing emotions. Such things as massacres like the
Maguindanao massacre, snatching, war among nations, corruptions are some of the
usual things we see and hear on daily news. It is so ironical that instead of being
horrified and baffled by the rising rates of real-life violence, so many of us Filipinos are
fascinated and even enjoy watching and hearing them on the news. Worst, the youth
would comment as, “You Rock!” and “ It’s cool!” or even LIKE it on Facebook. It
shows how greatly influential these are on our attitudes about the acceptability of
violence.
Recently, we have been wrecked with news on TV about corruption. Leaders of our
country were accused and charged of corruption, using our money and spending too
much for their travels abroad and even on their own personal use. How could they be
so cruel? Where is the value of honesty in this case? Doing bad really is limiting our
lives!
I remember my four – year old sister who sat beside me one evening while I was
reading a book. She suddenly uttered “ Kuya Emman, Where is God?”. I could not
answer her as I was totally astonished with her question. I also began to ask myself.
Does my little sister also feel and understand what our country is facing at present?
Does she already anticipate how vague her future will be due to the turmoil that our
country is experiencing? Where are the right values of our people now? I then realize
that the first step to gain back our values is to realize that we all are children of God.
Every person - you too - has a set of inner values. Moral codes and standards in
society or groups are based on these values. As always, they have developed in us. We
just have to awaken ourselves to the realities of life. It is time to teach the youth how
much more freedom we would all have if we have integrity, if we all are honest. So we
can simply say to anybody, “don’t anymore lock the door in your house, no intruders
will get inside anyway”, ” I am never afraid to walk or jog at dawn”, or that women
are not intimidated or afraid of a man because of the possibility of rape or sexual
harassment anymore.
If we agree that freedom from violence is right, then that places a responsibility
on all of us to behave with respect toward each other. As a youth, I feel very powerless
to change the problems of corruption and violence. I can't change the world, but I CAN
change me like Brady Davis. I can change the way I solve problems in my own life with
my fellow students and friends and family and neighbors. I can teach them by setting a
good example for other people in my life. I can turn off violent TV shows, music,
movies, and video games. I can be honest even if others are not. I can change my
corner of the world! I can be an ambassador for peace in my own little way. We all can
begin to teach the youth appropriate ways of dealing with these challenges.
This is what others should also do to teach the youth, they must have a vision to
strive toward. They should be aware of the positive ways to handle their own struggles
in life. They must possess the value of integrity! We need to teach them to learn all
they can about the world so they can be informed voters, but ultimately, the way to
change the world is for all of us to think first about our little corner of it. Let's inspire
our young people to imagine what it would be like to live in a world without corruption
and violence. We've got to just pick a place to begin and then get started.
So easily our fellow Filipinos can turn off violence in all its ugly forms -- physical
violence, sexual violence, family violence, corruption, dishonesty, etc. We all need to be
in changing the corners of our world, let’s all take actions, it’s never too late. We all can
make a difference like Brady Davis whose goal in life is “ to change the world around
him while never compromising himself “. This pursuit of life, integrity and exemplary
behavior will create for us a country with wealth beyond earthly riches!