The document discusses how people present themselves online versus their real identities. It defines online identity and compares it to real identity. It also discusses how the internet has influenced expressions of gender and sexuality. It provides guidance on properly demonstrating values and attitudes online, including only sharing necessary information, keeping within family values, and remembering that anything shared could remain online forever. People should think carefully about what they post and be aware of appropriate boundaries.
The document discusses how people present themselves online versus their real identities. It defines online identity and compares it to real identity. It also discusses how the internet has influenced expressions of gender and sexuality. It provides guidance on properly demonstrating values and attitudes online, including only sharing necessary information, keeping within family values, and remembering that anything shared could remain online forever. People should think carefully about what they post and be aware of appropriate boundaries.
Define online identity; Compare real identity versus online identity; Describe the influence of Internet on sexuality and gender; and Discuss the proper way of demonstrating values and attitudes online. ABSTRACTION
More than half of the population worldwide now uses
the Internet. Internet has already become an integral part of everyday life for most of the world’s population. The Philippines is among one of the countries with the most active Internet users. Online identity is actually the sum of all our characteristics and our interactions. Partial identity is a subset of characteristics that make up our identity. Persona is the partial identity we create that represents ourselves in a specific situation.
Selective Self-presentation and Impression Management
Self-presentation is the “process of controlling how one is perceived by other people.” To construct positive images, individuals selectively provide information about them and carefully cater this information in response to other’s feedback. Sharing ourselves is no longer new and has been practiced as soon as human beings were formed. Digital devices help us share information broadly, more than ever before. We have entered an extraordinary era of self-portraiture. In older family albums, the photographer was not often represented in the album, whereas with arm’s-length photos, they are necessarily included (e.g., selfies and groupies). Conversion of private diaries into public revelations of inner secrets; the lack of privacy in many aspects of social media make the users more vulnerable. Sharing the good things, the bad, embarrassing, and “sinful” things we experience; we also react and comment on negative experiences of others; empathize with people; argue with others online. Blogs and social media are the primary digital fora on which such confessions occur, but they can also be found in photo- and video-sharing sites where blunders and bad moments are also preserved and shared. We should have a filtering system to whatever information we share online, as well as to what information we believe in, which are being shared or posted by others online.
Gender and Sexuality Online
The terms “sex,” “gender,” and “sexuality” are often thought of as synonymous. They are actually quite distinct: Sex is the biological state that corresponds to what we might call a “man” or a “woman.” It is often explained as biological, fixed, and immutable. It is actually socially constructed. Gender is the social understanding of how sex should be experienced and how sex manifests in behavior, personality, preferences, capabilities, and so forth; as a socioculturally specific set of norms that are mapped onto a category of “sex.” Sexuality is an individual expression and understanding of desire. While like gender, this is often viewed as binary (homosexual or heterosexual), in reality, sexuality is often experienced as fluid. Performing Gender Online Judith Butler conceptualized gender as a performance. Gender was performative, in that it is produced through millions of individual actions, rather than something that comes naturally to men and women. The ability of users to self-consciously adapt and play with different gender identities would reveal the choices involved in the production of gender, breaking down binaries, and encouraging fluidity in sexuality and gender expression. Social media has been celebrated for facilitating greater cultural participation and creativity; The emergence of a “free culture” where individuals are empowered to engage in cultural production using raw materials, ranging from homemade videos to mainstream television characters to create new culture, memes, and humor. While the number of male and female bloggers is roughly equivalent, they tend to blog about different things; Although the technologies are the same, the norms and mores of the people using them differ. Setting Boundaries to Your Online Self: Smart Sharing Before posting or sharing anything online, consider the following: Is this post/story necessary? Is there a real benefit to this post? Is it funny, warm- hearted, teachable—or am I just making noise online without purpose? Have we (as a family or parent/child) resolved this issue? An issue that is still being worked out at home, or one that is either vulnerable or highly emotional, should not be made public. Is it appropriate? Does it stay within the boundaries of our family values? Will this seem as funny in 5, 10, or 15 years? Or is this post better suited for sharing with a small group of family members? Or maybe not at all? Rules to Follow Here are additional guidelines for proper sharing of information and ethical use of the Internet according to New (2014): Stick to safer sites. Guard your passwords. Limit what you share. Remember that anything you put online or post on a site is there forever, even if you try to delete it. Do not be mean to or embarrass other people online. Always tell if you see strange or bad behavior online. Be choosy about your online friends. Be patient. ASSESSMENT
Discuss the developments of the following that created
great impact in our lives. Write 2-3 paragraphs each.
1. Internet-
2. Social Networking Sites (Facebook, Twitter,ets)